As Dr Phil says: we can't change what we don't acknowledge. In order to make changes in our life, we have to stand up and look at ourselves and think: hey! what can I do to make life better? Don't try to change the people around you. Try to help yourself and see what you can do to improve yourself. You don't have to become a different person. Just try to find the better you inside your heart. That'll be plenty. Trust me, we all have a better side than we are showing right now. People that claim that there is nothing to be improved.. hmhm... I don't know..
Why don't we give it a shot? It's worth it. We'll all benefit from it. How is that for a new year's wish?