Saturday, February 27, 2010

Live life to the fullest

This morning, I got notified that your mom passed away yesterday. Just in 14 days notice, she was rushed into the hospital. She had an ulcer that eventually lead to a gastric perforation. The surgeon did everything he could to fix her. There were complications though. Her liver was affected to the point that there was no manner to make it better...

You loved your mom deeply. The two of you were very close, since your daddy died when you were only 3 years old. She took care of you all by herself and that was not always easy. You have cerebral palsy, that prevents you from walking. Your mom helped out whenever she could and she helped you to get your own apartment, so you could become an independent young woman.

Your mom had served in the police force and later she became an English teacher. Her students loved her and they looked forward to her classes.

She lived her life to the fullest. She lived her life the way she wanted to live it. She was 57 when she passed away. Too young, way too young. I don't think she had any regrets but I do think she was very sorry to leave you behind. She must have known though, that you would manage. She knew you had your boyfriend who loves you deeply. You have your family that loves you. You are independent and you have an assistant to help out whenever you need her assistance.

Hang in there. You'll be fine. Your mom and dad will watch over you. Don't worry.


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